To be a wife is to be quiet , obedient, and meek in all things. This I think is at the core of what makes it difficult to be a good wife. It is my struggle. I think it is imporant to practice these with actions and learn to put feelings aside. For me this challenge will be huge. I will keep a checklist for awhile as a tool to help. In researching this , I have found my thought for the day. If you chose this role of wife and commit to its meaning then if you disobey your spouse it is in fact a sin. You are disobeying Gods plan. Something to ponder the next time you disrespect or ignore your spouse.